To appear wise, one must talk;
To be wise, one must listen.<\/p>\n
To appear to do good, one must be busy;
To do good, one must know when to stand aside.<\/p>\n
To appear to lead, one must put oneself first;
To lead, one must put oneself last.<\/p>\n
To appear caring, one must give advice;
To be caring, one must give space.<\/p>\n
To appear to love, one must know how to give;
To love, one must know also how to receive.<\/p>\n
To appear happy, one must smile;
To be happy, one must be free of fears.<\/p>\n